Life is not centered at giving you what you need, you’re on your own with that.
It is however, very much focused on giving you what you deserve. And so am I.
Sure it’s smart to separate your wants and needs, but for this particular case, let’s put them all in one and just call them needs. After all, everyone gets them confused anyway.
Is it safe for me to say that you have never received anything you needed for no reason? As much as we, as humans, fight the assumption, every choice we make is made on the justification that it somehow benefits us. While some people lean towards selflessness like Mother Teresa and others are predominately selfish like Hitler, it is never one or the other, both made the choices they made because it benefited them.
If prodded long enough as to why someone did what they did, it is inevitable to get a response which states that.
Typically unbeknownst, when you receive something you need, you receive it because you have worked for it – except, that you actually never worked for it, you worked for the person to give you it. Again, you are usually unaware that you have worked or will work in a way that will benefit the person who is giving you what you need. Obviously then, the bigger the need, want, desire, hope, and so on that you have, the harder you have to work.
Want to be on the ballot for the next presidential election? You have to work hard for an extremely long time and the hard work you do has to benefit as many people as possible in the largest of ways. The same goes if you want to be a successful businessperson. The same goes if you want to win the Nobel Peace Prize. Anything major in life requires major work. None of it will be given to you unless you provide the gift bearer ways that it would benefit them.
Then, while you are working hard, working smart, working more efficiently through the good and bad times in order to get what you need, life – and all it’s magic - steps in and gives you exactly what you deserve.
However, what most people fail to understand is that you can go through life working hard and never get what you deserve because to get what you deserve, you have to work on your character. What builds character? I think you can figure that one out by yourself.
In my opinion, and I am curious if you agree, I would rather go through life getting what I deserve than what I need/want/desire.
Stay Positive & Work On Yourself And Everything Else Will Come To You
Garth E. Beyer