Take The Time To Provide Feedback

Take The Time To Provide Feedback

You're Doing It Wrong (Feedback)

Feedback is one of the many practical, but often difficult practices of a leader, manager or the alike. It’s often ignored because it’s an uncomfortable practice to criticize someone’s work meaningfully; to provide legitimate advice that doesn’t pain the emotions of the one being critiqued.

To sit down with a person and carefully show them all that they’ve done wrong is not something anyone – whether  they are in a leadership role or not – looks forward to, which is why so many resort to sending an email instead. I plead you refrain from that method.

Providing in-person feedback is vitally important for the future success of those needing the critique. Not only do you both work through being uncomfortably vulnerable and leave having learned from mistakes, there’s also a behind-the-conscious interpretation of feedback on the receiver’s end.

By receiving feedback, they know they can keep improving, that you believe there’s more to them than what they’re showing, and it gives them something to strive for.

Consider this perspective: What are you telling them when you don’t provide feedback? When you don’t provide feedback, you communicate that you don’t think they can do better, that they can’t learn from their mistakes, that you don’t see them as capable of improvement. Is that how you want your employees, partners, friends to feel?

Feedback. Provide it.

 

Stay Positive & It’s Time Well Spent, It’s An Investment, It’s Worth It

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20 Actions To Increase Your Social Presence

20 Actions To Increase Your Social Presence

Increase Social Media Presence

1) Use incredible photos. Always.

2) Find small problems and solve them.

3) Connect with others on a personal and emotional level. You’re not a robot.

4) Update your social media profiles. Pics. Bios. Location. All that good stuff.

5) Only use the social media outlets that matter.

6) Connect with other social media folk in your realm.

7) Post daily or fairly regularly.

8) Give remarkable content away. eBooks anyone? Tickets? Gear? T-shirts?

9) Always deliver.

10) Always be learning and thanking those who you learn from.

11) Ask for testimonials.

12) Time your posts. There is research out there telling the peak times to post.

13) On any “about me” page, give something away.

14) Forget the RT/Share button, your work is in the Comment/Reply.

15) Be in it for the long run.

16) Have a target market. Fill in the blank for your target “People like us …..”

17) Trend, news, and holiday jack.

18) Share what others want to hear, not what you think they want to hear.

19) Try something new each week.

20) Write blog posts like this.

Need any clarification on these or want to chat about using one (or more) of these tips for your brand? Shoot me a tweet @thegarthbox

 

Stay Positive & Get Goin

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Only Look Down At Those You’re About To Bring Up

It’s difficult to follow someone who you know you are better skilled than. It’s a universal condition. It’s exactly why we need to work on ourselves before leading at something others are better at leading.

On a happier note, nothing moves you up quicker than bringing those less skilled than you to your own level. Growth happens when you teach who you can, not just who you want.

 

Stay Positive & There’s No Division Between Leading, Teaching And Learning

The Invaluable Variable Of Any Great Business

What are you teaching?

There is not a single successful business that doesn’t teach something of some sort to their customers or clients, or at least gives the opportunity to learn in some shape or form.

Netflix. Documentaries.

Starbucks. Small talk.

Pursuitist. How-tos.

Barnes & Noble. Self-explanatory.

Inkhouse. PR.

 

So, I ask again. What are you teaching?

 

Stay Positive & Businesses Stop Teaching When They Stop Learning

Self-Taught, It’s All On You To Create

I’m self-taught. Half because I don’t think school teaches enough of the important stuff. Half because it’s expensive to have others teach you. (Naturally, the younger you are, the less money you have to invest in your private education.) It’s not just tuition that’s pricey, but seminars, learning programs and teaching kits too.

It does well to remember, though, you can read up on books, watch YouTube and TED videos. You can ask a smart friend to mentor you or you can establish a club where you teach each other what your superpower is and learn together. But none of this compares to the impact, the lessons, the power of creating.

When you start creating, the lessons seek you, the connections find you, the success follows you. What you take in is half of your education. What you give out is the other half.

 

Stay Positive & Quite Possibly The Most Important Half Of Your Education

People first.

Work second.

Why is this so complicated for professionals, marketers and other artists to understand?

People first not only in the sense of what you create for them, but in being an idol, a teacher and a respected professional.

Work for the sake of work or money will only get one so far. Work for the sake of doing what you’re passionate about and inspiring/teaching others who share that same passion – now that is remarkable.

There will always be people in your work life that seek what you have for free that will ask for free lessons or to shadow you. The easy move is to  charge them and give nothing for free. The much harder move is to be human and take each request on a case-by-case basis.

You’ll make more people happy and keep your profession alive that way.

By the way, being the only one in your profession really doesn’t make you that special. And if you’re going to have competition, it might be better to have close ties with them to begin with.

 

Stay Positive & So, Are You A Mentor Or Not?

Elaboration On Shadowing

Yesterday I wrote that learning must be done through action, not solely observance.

My dining experience today resonated this philosophy and made me question why they call it “job shadowing.”

Last time I watched my shadow, it moved when I moved, did what I did, messed up when I did. My shadow didn’t hover behind me, it didn’t lean over my shoulder, it didn’t just follow me, it made all the same moves I did.

The waitress introduced herself and the trainee trailed right behind her the entire afternoon, from table to table. Her cheeks had to hurt because beside walking, all that she was doing was smiling. There was no conversation, no getting drinks, no effort. Not her fault at all. It’s the fault of society’s misconception of training people.

Can she get by and meet the needs of the restaurant by shadowing this way – sure. But that comes with externalities.

Those being poorer experiences for the consumer, the “teacher,” and the shadower.

 

Stay Positive & It’s Not “What Did You Learn Today,” It’s “What Did You Do?”

Garth E. Beyer