Why Try To Get Out Of Your Box, When You Can Use What's In It?
At the end of the day, we have to manufacture our own meaning, our own purpose and existence.
At the end of the day, it’s on us to do the work that fulfills us, the emotional labor, the hard work.
At the end of the day, we need to work toward the change we seek to make and control only which we can control.
At the beginning of the day, too.
Stay Positive & All Day Every Day, Really
The imagination can truly be stretched. It’s the same as you work any muscle. Push it to the boundaries today and you’ll be able to push it further tomorrow.
The sad part is that there are very few teachers out there who coach or encourage one to truly stretch the imagination.
For kids, it comes naturally. In school, you may have a professor or two that gets you to imagine where wind comes from or what life in Andromeda might look like. And recently, Andy from Headspace encourages folks to imagine sunlight spreading as far out in the world as we can imagine (have you tried to picture what it looks like beyond space?!)
While those are big ideas, it’s worth giving our brain the mental workout of thinking about the little things differently, too.
What are ways we can show empathy that we’ve never shown before?
What can we say to someone to make their entire week, not just day?
What does it look like when we combine loading a dishwasher with the lessons learned from studying architecture?
Stay Positive & Ssssstreeeeetttcchhhhhhh
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With my journalistic upbringing, I often categorize movements in three ways.
There’s those creating the change. Those writing about the change. Those working through the change.
When the change becomes a cycle and consistently hits all three groups; THAT’S when true change occurs.
Those who don’t fit into any of those categories typically don’t fare well. Inaction is still a choice and it doesn’t protect one from shifts in culture.
Go create. Go write. Go work through the change.
Stay Positive & Keep Going
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Prosperity in all aspects of life, really, only requires one thing.
To keep your head on while all those around you are losing theirs.
Stay Positive & It’s Hard, But Worth It
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When we feel defeated, it’s a lot like facing a huge risk or challenge. Our mind goes into flight or fight mode. (Which is really just either us shutting down or becoming enraged.)
There is another option, though. The one where we rise, re-focus and take things one at a time.
That path is always available.
Stay Positive & It’s A Choice (Even If It Doesn’t Feel Like One)
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Consider this scene from Don Quixote, wherein Sancho Panza, the slovenly, loyal squire, tells the tale of two relatives in judging a fine wine in a tavern.
One sips it, swishes it in his mouth, and says it’s wonderful, except for the slight taste of leather.
The other takes a drink. It’s excellent, he says, except for that off hint of iron.
The barflies mock the relatives for arguing about what’s off. But when the wine cask is emptied later, the tavern owner finds an iron key on a leather thong.
There are stories being yelled about culture wherein both could be right.
What’s clear from the story from Don Quixote is that 1. Arguing about which story was right was pointless. 2. We’re left wondering what one does after one finds out both stories are correct.
Better, I think, to focus on the positive change we can make than on what or who is to blame.
Stay Positive & Wine, Anyone?
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Broken windows send a certain signal.
So does a freshly painted deck, lit candles at the center of your table and the smell of of spent grain in a brewery’s taproom.
Everything you make, do, say, create or place all sends a signal.
What’s important is two-fold.
First that we’re sending the signals we want to send. Then that those signals are consistent with one another.
15 minutes of fame, a short outburst or even a surprise and delight moment may capture attention, but they don’t make an impact like a series of focused and consistent signals do.
Stay Positive & Careful What You’re Sending
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