There’s time for ideas to percolate. There’s time that someone else might do the work that needs to be done. There’s time for folks to realize that maybe the task is actually a distraction from the real work that needs to be done.
BUT, more often than not, procrastination’s consequences outnumber it’s potential benefits.
The most frustrating problem about procrastinating is that the world is sure to throw you more to do right when you’ve decided to stop procrastinating and get to work.
That moment leads to overwhelming stress and frustration; feelings of being buried and unable to climb out – and if you can, it feels half-assed.
You can lend a hand when someone is in need. Maybe their problem is having to get all of their stuff into a moving truck. Maybe they’re having relationship issues. Maybe they bought too much beer and can use some help drinking it.
Moments when lending a hand can be a difference maker are pretty obvious.
The not-so-obvious is when a story is what’s needed.
The teacher that’s breaking curriculum to help a student follow their passion needs to do more than lend a hand, she needs to lend a story; to herself, to the student, and likely to the board and the student’s parents.
The project manager that needs to keep a project moving. They don’t need an extra set of hands; they need to lend a story to those working on the project that motivates them, a story to the stakeholders that are wanting the project done yesterday, a story to themselves about resilience and determination.
There are times that a lending hand can help, but far more often a story can help more.
It takes attention to detail and emotional labor and rallying a tribe around your investment.
It takes work to get the return.
If you’re telling yourself (or others are telling you) that you can get ahead by putting some of your resources in a bucket and then do nothing after – they’re wrong more than they’re right.
Significantly more times wrong.
Stay Positive & Get Ready To Do Some Work (Worth Doing)