Close your eyes and listen to what’s happening around you – really listen to all the sounds.
How does it make you feel?
There are a lot of ques in our lives that influence how we feel. More often than not, they’re subconscious ones; ones we rarely notice unless we seek them out.
The ding and the pop up from email might not actually make you feel good.
The water drip drip dripping from the faucet might not either.
The squeal of the door hinge, how someone talks to you, the sound of a third can of soda opening…
The beautiful thing is that you’ve got the ability to change the things that are not making you feel good.
And, if it’s truly something you can’t change then perhaps we shift to changing how we feel about them.
The thing about a better deal is that you’ll always be able to find it.
There has always been a race to the bottom and always will be, so saving dollars here and there is always possible if you search hard and long enough.
But the time you spend looking for a better deal is an expense that’s often-overlooked.
Similarly, the time you could have spent happy with what you wanted by having it sooner (even if it’s a little worse of a deal) is something you sacrifice by shopping for that better deal, too.
Sure, vetting 30 vendors might lead you to a better deal if you’re comparing apples to apples. But the reality is everything’s a fruit basket.
Stay Positive & A Better Deal Isn’t Always The Efficient One
Anything that’s new that’s also worth doing is going to suck.
Sure, it’ll be good for professional development and might even by fun with a shot of adrenaline.
But really it’s going to be difficult, you’ll be frustrated and you’ll feel uncomfortable.
Now that we know that, we can better prepare. Here’s my advice:
Be insane with the amount of questions you ask others for clarification.
Go outside your circle to see if others have done what you’re having to do. Ask for their help.
Be up front with folks that it’s your first go at it. Not in the way of making an excuse, but in the way of letting them know you’re their to learn from their feedback.
After you ask for their feedback. Ask for more feedback.
Deliberately take breaks to do things you enjoy; things that don’t make you frustrated or uncomfortable.
And lastly, as soon as the task is complete, find another new one.