It’s nearly a default setting that people will want more.
They’ll say you’re not present enough and you should show face more.
They’ll say you need more in savings before they’ll offer you the loan.
They’ll say you’re not trying hard enough.
It’s so easy to get sucked into trying to solve that for that person or group, but I warn you against it.
First: They’re the minority. If you can unstick yourself from the guilt of not being enough to the person calling you out, you’ll notice very quickly that there are many others who wouldn’t agree.
Second: Most who go into solve it don’t do it with their heart; they do it to check a box or because they feel they have to. (Not an contagiously inspiring source of energy there!)
Sometimes more is better, but rarely.
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