I’m a strong advocate for never settling, for accepting what you get whether you think you deserve it or not, and always striving for more.
However, there have been moments a dear friend reminds me not to settle with something. What is hard to convince him is that I’m not settling, I’m merely making the most of what I have at the moment.
I think to my Uncle who I continuously learn from. He once told me that although he is married and madly in love, he knows that there may be someone better out there for him. For one with a “do not settle” mindset, it’s hard to understand why he would stay with my aunt, but I get it, he is making the most of what he has now.*
When you make the most of what you have, it’s not settling.
Often times, making the most of what you have now is what leads to greater things in the future.
Stay Positive & Love Like There Are No Other Options And Your Options Will Multiply
Garth E. Beyer
*There are also points in life where you will have the chance to reach for something better, but you won’t take it. There is a type of satisfaction when settling that involves a sense of comfortability and there is a sense of satisfaction when settling that involves pure happiness. My uncle has the latter.
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