Most people toss their words like receipts into a trash can. One line. Done.
“How was the meeting?”
“Fine.”
If you stop there, the moment dies on the kitchen floor.
The tiny rebellion is to meet that one sentence with a compliment and a question.\
“That sounds like it took some effort. What part stretched you the most?”
You validate their answer so their guard relaxes. Then you invite them deeper so their mind wakes up. Compliment. Question. It is a two step spell that turns small talk into a small lantern.
Used often enough, your world fills with people who discover what they really think while talking to you.
Stay Positive & Isn’t That Charming?
Garth Beyer is a Certified Cicerone®, Product Marketer, owner of Garth's Brew Bar and a Madison-based freelance writer.
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