There’s really no other relationship worth getting into other than a win-win.
The best leaders, marketers, and friends are the ones to evaluate if they’re in a win-win situation the fastest. If they’re not, they move on. No point forcing it and no point in waiting around to see if they’ll ever get their win.
Stay Positive & The Way To The Top Is Together (With The Right People)
Maybe you don’t see that light at the end of the tunnel.
That’s no reason not to keep moving forward.
Maybe you don’t see the destination on the map yet.
Maybe you’re just not sold on that final transaction.
In an effort to stay safe and comfortable, we often convince ourselves that we might as well stay where we’re at since we can’t see that end spot that we want to be.
The same goes for waiting for the right answer or the perfect person to help or that winning lottery ticket.
There are a few hundred or so reasons to stay put and hold off.
It’s pretty hard to justify this statement when it’s put up to scrutiny.
Jumping on a forum thread might not be worth your time, but if it converted one sale and that sale was $1,000 – was that still not worth your time?
It’s a very fine statement to make when we’ve done the emotional and mental labor of truly evaluating the ask, the work and the potential results (and then being okay with those results).
It’s a very terrible statement to make when we do it to hide, mitigate our workload or shrug off a potential customer/audience.
More often than not, if you spend an extra minute thinking about it, it’s worth your time after all.
Realizing that worth also makes the doing part easier, too.
Stay Positive & Worth Taking A Moment Before Disregarding The Action
Champions win awards. They wear the belt. The spotlight is on them.
But none of that is what makes them a champion.
What makes them a champion is that they’re looked up to; people are inspired by them.
We don’t need champions because we want things done for us. We want champions because we want help believing we could do it ourselves if we put our mind to it.
I despised math class. I failed trigonometry the first time I took it. I couldn’t stand investing time and energy into something I knew I wouldn’t use.
Alas, there’s one thing about math that does apply to life and work: the power of showing your work.
It enables you to discover your weak points. It lets you feel more fulfilled when you’re done working through a problem. It makes pivoting in the moment feel easier because you’re not set on a specific path.
And that’s all internal.
Then there’s the validation and respect you earn from others by showing the work.
Can you imagine a tattoo artist with no sketch book?
Or a contractor without any bids from various plumbers?