You can lend a hand when someone is in need. Maybe their problem is having to get all of their stuff into a moving truck. Maybe they’re having relationship issues. Maybe they bought too much beer and can use some help drinking it.
Moments when lending a hand can be a difference maker are pretty obvious.
The not-so-obvious is when a story is what’s needed.
The teacher that’s breaking curriculum to help a student follow their passion needs to do more than lend a hand, she needs to lend a story; to herself, to the student, and likely to the board and the student’s parents.
The project manager that needs to keep a project moving. They don’t need an extra set of hands; they need to lend a story to those working on the project that motivates them, a story to the stakeholders that are wanting the project done yesterday, a story to themselves about resilience and determination.
There are times that a lending hand can help, but far more often a story can help more.
It takes attention to detail and emotional labor and rallying a tribe around your investment.
It takes work to get the return.
If you’re telling yourself (or others are telling you) that you can get ahead by putting some of your resources in a bucket and then do nothing after – they’re wrong more than they’re right.
Significantly more times wrong.
Stay Positive & Get Ready To Do Some Work (Worth Doing)
First you need to love what you do. Love creating. Love posting and sharing.
Then you’ve gotta delete; to see it as a quantity game. The more ideas around what you love, the more ideas get removed – with a few great ones carrying on.
And then we repeat. We create more. Ideate more. Ship more.
Each time, weaning out the weak, promoting the best and mastering our craft.