Three Tips To Get To The Top

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  1. Set your limits: This could be limiting TV time to limiting how much you eat to when you answer emails. Limits, constraints, guard rails are your friends.
  2. Stay positive: As in, welcome adversity, know that there’s a solution to every problem and create the good in others’ experiences.
  3. Surround yourself with really really remarkable people. The people will make or break you. Fortunately, you have a choice on who you hang with.

Stay Positive & 4. Start Now

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They Want Consistency

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It’s not necessarily the content that you’re consistent with that they seek.

It’s not even the style that they’re gravitated toward.

What matters is that you consistently show up as your self.

Every day, the feeling of your interactions and offerings need to be the same.

And that’s pretty simple, too.

Stay Positive & Just Make Sure Your Heart Is In It

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Chasing Better

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It’s improbable to find pleasure long-term in situations that don’t change.

At some point, boredom hits or a drive to find something better encroaches.

So the best step forward is to find new ways to improve or alter the current situation; to not just find the good but create more of the great in the situation.

Better doesn’t have to be vastly different.

Stay Positive & Nuances Are Everything

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The Write Way

Facing a problem? Write about it.

Need a creative spark to ideation? Start writing.

Struggling with a decision? Write.

There’s no other activity that produces as strong of results as writing.

The key, however, is writing as exploration, not seeking a destination.

Stay Positive & Write Now

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Leap

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Leap.

Four letters combined to result in a lot of power.

It’s all we need to do to shake things up. It’s all we need to do to succeed. All we need to do to make the change we seek to make.

The real beauty in leaping is that you don’t need a special day to do it.

Stay Positive & We’re Waiting

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Testing Your Need

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A great test to see if you’re contributing the right kind of work is to ask the question if they would miss it if it/you were gone.

The next great test is to make sure the work can still carry on without you.

It’s one thing to be needed in a certain way.

It’s another to be needed for anything to get done.

Stay Positive & More Of The First, Please

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Those You’d Go Above And Beyond For

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Let’s just imagine you owned a coffee shop for a moment. No doubt there are some people who would enter that you would go above and beyond for.

Or maybe you manage an email list.

Or maybe you’re at a firm with a handful of clients.

Now imagine if your “above and beyond” situation became the norm, the status quo, the expectation.

Two things would happen. The first is you’d blow the competition out of the water and two, you’d need to find even more ways to treat different people differently.

Both are possible.

On a similar note, there was a seminar on the college campus that I went to when I was younger. The speaker told everyone to stand up and reach as high as they could; to really stretch and get our arms, hands and fingers pointed as high as we could. We did. Then we were all asked to reach a tiny bit higher – and we did. Then he said something along the lines of this. “You guys rock more than you know. At first you thought you were reaching as high as you could, that was what was asked of you. But you were still able to reach higher. We hold back on ourselves. We can do more and be better if we ask it of ourselves.”

That experience has stuck with me to this day and it doesn’t just apply to how we hold back on ourselves, it’s also how we hold back on others. We can give more than we think we can.

Stay Positive & Go Above And Beyond (Then Go Above And Beyond More)

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