Comparing is about as helpful as adding a tablespoon of salt to a lake to make it a saltwater lake.
You get the satisfaction of being right, but it doesn’t quite matter to your overall mission.
Plus, it’s as easy to compare two things to make you happy as it is to make you sad.
That lake compared to your cup of tap water is much saltier, but compared to the ocean …
Better to focus more on why you started on your journey and if you’re making more of an impact than you were a month ago then it is to compare to another’s journey.
There’s no merit in relating your chapter 5 to someone else’s chapter 25.
Rudyard Kipling’s poem, “If” has always had a special place in my mind.
It reminds me to keep my head on when all around me are losing theirs.
What he doesn’t get into within the poem, is why. So, I’ll offer an explanation.
It’s not as selfish of an action as the poem makes it seem. There’s benefits you can experience by keeping your head on straight and not being frazzled, but there are more benefits to those around you when you do.
It’s because you bring the energy to every room you enter.
If you enter stressed, red-faced and concerned – people will gravitate toward feeling the same.
Same can be said for when you enter a room passionate, outgoing and excited.
If we learn anything from Rudyard’s poem, it’s that we can learn that deciding our emotion when going into a room is dance, but we can be the lead if we choose.