More Than A People Pleaser

People Pleaser

You can be a people inspire-er

people influencer

people disturber

people changer

people diffuser

people supporter

You can also be family pleaser

self pleaser

tribe pleaser

boss pleaser

kid pleaser

team pleaser

The best thing about being a people pleaser is that you choose to be something else at anytime.

 

Stay Positive & What’s Today Looking Like?

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Half-Differentiating

Differentiator

A quick way to get ahead of competition is to simply be better.

A quick way to be better is not to do more of what your competitors are already doing.

Rather, cut the time you’re doing what they are in half and invest it into doing what they aren’t.

I’d bet they’re not caring as much about people, quality or how it is delivered, whatever it is.

 

Stay Positive & It’ll Be What Makes You Different Without Falling Behind

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Let It Go

Let It Go

Of course we don’t want to let it go. It’s ours now. It doesn’t matter if it’s good or bad. We own it.

Letting it go means we would have to change, to be uncomfortable again.

Letting it go means there’s space for something new and maybe something worse.

So we hold on. We try to live with it. But over time. It weighs us down. We stand still.

And you know what happens to those who stand still.

 

Stay Positive & Let It Go To Move Forward

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Looking Or Waiting

Pick Yourself

Opportunities are out there. There’s no doubt about it.

Yes, even the very specific opportunities you would love to be offered.

Of course, opportunities have a bit of an ego problem. They’re not willing to come to you. Often times, they don’t even meet half way. In fact, they sometimes don’t feel like opportunities at all because you have to work so hard to get them.

But that’s the true opportunity. The opportunity to leap.

Most of the greatest projects you’ve seen people create have been because they looked around, reached out and took the leap.

I’ll be speaking at a few events in 2018 not because I’m sought after, but because I asked a few influential people if I could.

 

Stay Positive & Go. Leap. Pick Yourself.

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Will You Be There

Show Up With Frequency

Frequency matters to people when it comes to keeping your promises.

Are you putting your energy into the things that you can do with frequency for a year, two, ten?

They need you to show up in the right place with the same message.

They want validation. You want trust.

You both win when you show up.

 

Stay Positive & Show Up Again … And Again … And Again

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Two Types Of Labor

Labor Of Love

It would be nonsensical to think manual labor can occur without hard work, sweat and the feeling of exhaustion at the end of it.

Yet, why would you think emotional labor is any different?

 

Stay Positive & Power Through, Doesn’t Make Sense Not To

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An Honest Reminder

Door In Your Face Moments

I was out with a friend earlier and was reminded of a universal truth.

“That’s life. You’ve gotta have the door slammed in your face a few times.”

In another moment with a president of a marketing firm, he was sharing the times in his career he was most proud of. Two of the four experiences he shared were door-slamming moments when he was dealt a poor hand and had to face adversity.

It’s true that some of the positive experiences we have have a positive influence on us. More often than not, though, it’s the negative experiences that have the most positive impact.

 

Stay Positive & Keep Knocking

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