Faith In Humanity

Trust Issues Be Gone

Garth Beyer

I still hear people say that they have trust issues; that they have a hard time trusting anyone until they work hard to earn it. These people are missing out… big.

“The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.” — Ernest Hemingway

I have always thought: you can either go through life trusting everyone until they lose it or you can go through life trusting no one until they earn it. Hopefully you can see the better of the two. But in the case you don’t (or you’re denying that you do), if you’re going to get screwed either way, wouldn’t you rather have your character be observed with the fact you have always given people the benefit of the doubt before you judged them without knowing their story?

Forever will I argue that trust is not solely earned – it can be given too.

Trust people, not cookies.

When it comes to people, trust, just trust until they give you a legitimate reason not to. As for cookies, well, raisin cookies that look a lot like chocolate chip cookies is why I will never trust another cookie again.

 

Stay Positive & Trust, You Can Always Stop If Things Don’t Work Out

Garth E. Beyer

What Goes Around

Garth Beyer

used to come back around.

You do a good deed and someone will do a good deed for you. The saying was more about reciprocity than anything. Karma, if you will.

All positive for the most part, but slightly selfish. Karma has caught on.

What goes around no longer comes around, rather, what goes around, goes around.

It’s about the domino affect, about doing that good deed for someone and not knowing, not expecting, and not hoping that that person will do a good deed for someone else (or that it will ever come back to you). It’s doing a good deed for the sake of doing it. The action is the result.

You’re a dot. Everyone is just a dot. And no greater good can be done than connecting dots, sending frequency, life, emotion throughout this network we have created. In one sense, we have all come to realize that if we all give, care, and connect, that we need never to worry about enacting reciprocity, that to have the door held open for us, we need not to hold it open for someone else.

What goes around, goes around. Wouldn’t want it any other way.

 

Stay Positive & Puts Some Faith In Humanity, Doesn’t It?

Garth E. Beyer