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Episode 51: Support From Your Competitors, Comparison, Acceptance And More (Podcast)

On this episode of In The Box Podcast we talked about your competitors helping you out, one tip for practicing acceptance, how to avoid comparing yourself to others, bad timing and unfortunate events. Enjoy.

Episode 51: Support From Your Competitors, Comparison, Acceptance And more

Series of Unfortunate Events – What do you do when you find yourself victim to a series of unfortunate events (mistakes that seem to be made one after the other)?

Competitive Support – Is it possible to get honest business support from your competitors?

Acceptance – One tip on how to practice acceptance?

Comparison – How do you avoid comparing yourself to others?

Bonus – What do you do when your timing is off?

 

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Episode 50: Recognizing You’re Off Balance, Apologizing Later, Being Hard On Yourself And More (Pocast)

On this episode of In The Box Podcast we talked acting now and apologizing later, noticing when your life is off-balance, whether it’s right to be hard on yourself or not, how important it is to have support from people around you, and we ended with a thorough reflection on the last 50 episodes.

Episode 50: Recognizing You’re Off Balance, Apologizing Later, Being Hard On Yourself And More

Apologizing later – What’s your take on “act now, apologize later” — is it right?

Balance – What is one way to recognize your life is off-balance (before it gets too bad)

Self love – One tip on how to not be hard on yourself?

Believe – How important is it to have others believe in you?

Bonus – Reflection on past 50 episodes

 

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Episode 27: Getting The Credit, Supporting Someone’s Passion, Giving Gifts And More – Podcast

On this episode of In The Box Podcast, we chatted about being okay with someone else getting the credit for something you may have had a major influence on, what makes a goal a “good” goal, the best way to support someone else’s passion, some things to consider when receiving a gift, and whether it’s better to read fiction or non-fiction.

Enjoy. You can download and listen on iTunes here.

Episode 27: Getting The Credit, Supporting Someone’s Passion, Giving Gifts And More

Credit – Is it okay with you if someone else gets the credit?

Goal – What is one thing that makes a goal a good goal?

Support – What is the best way to support someone else’s passion?

Receiving – What is one (best) way to learn to receive gifts from others?

Bonus – Is it better to read fiction or non-fiction?

 

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What A Real Impresario Needs

Balancing Impresario

It’s an odd feeling when someone tells me that they have my back because half of what I do I do to show one person can do it, that you don’t need a safety net, that one doing risky work doesn’t need someone to have their back.

What every impresario needs is not the hearing that someone will pick up the ball if they drop it, nor is it the knowing someone has their back; it’s the feeling of it all. The feeling someone is there to back you up, catch you if you fall.

Don’t tell your impresario friends you’re there if they fail. Make them feel you’re there by supporting their forward direction, appreciating their work, asking them questions that help them challenge their lizard brain thoughts.

Support is a funny thing. You don’t need an impresario to fail and fall to show your support. Giving them motivation to keep building their momentum – that’s the support impresarios need, that’s the trust that makes them continue doing work that matters.

The way an impresario sees it is this: they feel you’ve got their back when they see, hear, and feel you’ve got their front.

In the world of art, moving forward is so much more important and so much more difficult than dusting shoulders off and getting up after falling down.

Show you’re there to help forward movement and any impresario will feel you’re there to have their back, because, really, that’s the easier of the two, the safer of the two.

If your there in the front helping them do the work that matters, there’s no reason you wouldn’t be there if things were to go south.

 

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p.s. if you’re an impresario yourself, share this post with friends. they may need to read it more than you

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They Are All Lies

Lies that you tell yourself after seeing someone being successful or remarkable:

They were born with more talent than me

They are fearless

I can’t make the same committment that they make

They have more time than me

They don’t have to worry about x, y, or z like I do

I would have to get into Harvard if I wanted to end up like them

It’s so easy for them

They’ve had all the support from the beginning

They never fail

 

Stay Positive & Quit Lying To Yourself

Garth E. Beyer

The First Day Is Always The Hardest

Of course I’m joking here. It’s actually the opposite.

On the first day you have no expectations, you’re feeling things out, you’ve already accepted you may succeed, but you may also fail.

The first day you’re pumped. The first day your goal is just to learn, just to get through it. The first day you have the support of all those you told “I’m doing it.”

Of course, it’s worth to note that support quickly turns against you as you get further along your endeavors, which leads me to my point.

It’s not the first day that’s always the hardest, it’s the next day. Because doing things that matter never gets easier, you just get more out of it.

 

Stay Positive & Should Make Starting Now Easier

Garth E. Beyer

Start Flailing

Yesterday I wrote a post about making your 2013 new years resolution list now and trying to complete it by the end of this year.

The day before that, I published my book of poetry Sleeping Above Your Dreams.

Today is the day I encourage you to start flailing, thrashing, pushing, egging, thwacking, and a bit of swaggering to get your goals completed.

So often we wait until the last-minute for things and we flail to get them done. New years sucks because we have this idea that we can just set the goal to finish something next year. We have nothing to really trigger us to flail, no deadline, no one riding our backs.

In fact, everyone is supporting your effort to prolong yours. No one ever says to you, “No. I want to see that finished before the end of this year, not next year. You have better things to move on to and focus on for next year.”

Well. No one has ever said that to you until now.

This month of December has always been the month that the most items have been shipped. Let’s really stretch that list and ship our projects, our ideas, our writings, our muse.

I’m not sure about you, but I’m keeping tally of all the things I ship this year. I have a folder on my computer titled “Projects” and it will be empty by the end of this year. Clear, cleaned out, and ready for new ones to enter it for next year.

 

Stay Positive & What Do You Say To That?

Garth E. Beyer