I meet with a lot of reporters, journalists, and PR folk. I hear their stories, I heed their advice, and I ask a lot of questions.
The two most common things that I hear professionals say is
1. Learn to write well, really well.
2. I was lucky that…
The first is a “duh.” The second, well, is a lie.
None of these professionals were lucky that they ran into the headhunter of the PR firm they wanted to work for. They were not lucky that they had the credentials they needed for the job. They were not lucky that they got this or that internship. They were not lucky that the news editor had heard about them already.
These professionals didn’t land in their position by luck. They worked their asses off for it.
The real question is why do these professionals lie? Luck is a curated event, luck is the light at the end of the road, luck is a goal you meet after days, months, years(?) of hard work.
My thought is that everyone knows how difficult it is to become a doctor, yet, people still do. Then why do those in journalism and PR fear that the knowledge of how much work it will be to become a renowned journalist or PRS will stop people from becoming one.
At an even deeper level, why are these professionals not proud of how hard they worked?
I don’t have the answers for you right now. I’m not in their position. I know how difficult it is. I know how much I need to work to get where I want to be. I know the difficult leaps I need to take. I know that where I end up won’t be from luck.
When I find out the answers to these questions though, I will let you know.
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It’s not that we aren’t proud of how hard we worked. This is an extension of not knowing how to gracefully acc
accept a compliment. We are afraid of sounding boastful, or boring, or ungrateful; so we offer it up as “I was lucky.”. I think that’s the heart of the matter for a lot of people who lean on this stock response.