Undersharing Worsens Your Project (And Your Pleasure In It)

Here’s a lesson I learned early on in my entrepreneurial career: share everything as you’re working on it.

And when I write “everything” I mean it. Not just the good, the positive, the stuff that’s working, but the mistakes, the issues you’ve faced, the struggles, too.

There are only about 20 people who read one of the many progress updates I wrote about opening a bar and they learned about the crazy situation of a contractor hitting the sprinkler system and dropping 200 gallons of water in the space during build out. It was horrendous and there’s no shortage of negative stories I thought of about it. (People might not think I know what I’m doing or those working on my build out aren’t doing it right. Or now the opening schedule will get pushed back. Or that’s going to cost a lot of money. Or, oof, I hope he doesn’t ask for help cleaning that up! But I shared the story anyway.)

Now I have 20 regulars at the bar with whom I get to laugh about the situation with. It became a fun memory because I didn’t hide it.

A few other reasons to share:

  • You’ll almost always be offered help or mentorship of some sort when you share a mistake on a project.
  • You’ll almost always create more confidence in yourself, but also in regard to what others have in you. Transparency and proactive communication are rare traits and they are valued.
  • You’ll almost always have a greater reach and greater impact on your story than any ad you can buy.

And if you’re concerned about oversharing, don’t be. If someone doesn’t want to hear about it or read about it, they don’t have to. Neither of you lose anything.

Stay Positive & Share Away

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