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Episode 13: Mistakes, Habits, Disorder And More – Podcast

On this episode of In The Box Podcast, we explored how to process mistakes, being in front of a PR (crisis) story and how to handle disorder. We also talked about a daily habit that gets us energized for the day, if less is really more, and a tad about superstitions, which turned into a discussion about Parkinson’s Law.

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Episode 13: Mistakes, Habits, Disorder And More

Superstitions – Do you believe in any superstitions?

Less – Is less really more?

Habits – What is one habit you’ve developed that is critical to your daily success or energy for taking on the day?

Mistakes – How do you process mistakes?

In Front – How important in PR is it to be in front of a story vs. letting things develop and then responding?

Disorder – How do you handle the role of disorder in your own life?

 

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Unlocking Potential #15: Q&A With Donna White

Donna WhiteOnce you’re on a social platform long enough, you get to see the changes and improvements people make in their lives. You get to see some people transition to becoming a linchpin.

Donna White, when we started following each other on Twitter, was making a name for herself. Now she’s regularly writing at PrimeTime and making a positive ruckus in the world of PR.

I’m happy to have her as the 15th participant of my Unlocking Potential series.

Without further ado, welcome, Donna.

Q: What’s Prime Time all about? What inspired you to pursue PR?

Donna: I wanted to be a journalist so studied it at university, but quickly discovered that I didn’t have the personality to survive any trash talk from a newsroom editor. What can I say? I’m a positive person. So, flicking through Guardian Media jobs in desperation, I came across a graduate position at a PR agency. It required creativity, communication and people skills – the same things I’d been studying for. So I took the plunge and, four interviews later, I got the job. A hop, skip and a jump later into in-house comms for a UK charity, I’ve recently switched over to digital marketing.

Prime Time started because I love writing and had lots of opinions about the industry and new campaigns that I wanted to comment on without securing approval from managers, directors and clients. It was my personal space where I could test my ideas – and set myself up as a PR champion and influencer. Two years later my baby is in its terrible twos and still going strong. #Proud.

Q: How might people be viewing PR wrong? Why would anyone think ill of such an amazing profession?

Donna: Anyone who thinks PR is service which should be viewed in isolation is clearly mistaken. It only works to its full potential when complemented with marketing and digital.

Integration is key and if brands are using multiple agencies for various campaign components, they should be clear on ways of working. Failing this, just hire a fully-integrated agency. See Q10 below for more details.

Q: What marketing advice do you find yourself giving most often?

Donna: Ensure your brand has criteria as to what conversations it should and shouldn’t get involved with – aka if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say it at all!

American Apparel and GAP never cease to amaze me that they risk their reputation for a cheap tweet.

Also, don’t leave social media to your juniors unless they’re well-trained and trustworthy. It’s a series of mini windows into your brand values and, given enough chances, people will look. Don’t let them catch you undressed.

Q: I was chatting with a friend the other day reminiscing about a time when PR was all publicity and then the story of PR turning into an integrative effort. It’s pretty clear PR is an ever shifting definition. Where do you see PR just a few years from now? Will social media be at the helm? Will we return to more publicity stunts instead of strategy?

Donna: In a few years time it won’t matter what department ‘content’ is coming from, as long as brands have plenty of it and a plan to share it with the world. PR will still have its place – otherwise I’m out of a blog – but it won’t be execs selling in pretty press releases to journalists who don’t want to know. It’ll be organisations with shared values teaming up to create a bigger story that shifts people’s perceptions, attitudes and actions. A bigger splash in the pool.

Having said that, although people are becoming tired of stunts (‘Oh, is that a pair of Paddy Power pants in the air advertising betting on the Grand National? Yawn’), they’re still changing the algorithm of the industry by evoking some sort of  emotion. But, once you’ve got everyone’s attention you have to cultivate that interest someway – and long-term strategies are key.

With regards to social, despite networks offering advertising, these platforms work best when used by agencies for organic quick wins: launching hashtags, sharing stories and getting involved in bigger conversations. There’s still a sense of achievement of stumbling upon a neat tweet and sharing it amongst your friends / peers.

Q: How can brands get a grip on social media? Can you use a brand and one platform as an example?

Donna: It’s important for brands to understand that not every social media platform is relevant for them. I’d much prefer to see a brand I love showing off great social skills on one channel, rather than a few poorly.

What’s really made me smile in the last few months is the idea of ‘insane honesty’.

Take US diner chain Arby’s for example. When it accidentally forgot to feature Pepsi in one of its adverts, it quickly released an additional video apologising for its mistake. It doesn’t take itself too seriously and makes the most of the opportunity to great effect. The proof in the pudding – it scored more than 1.5m YouTube views in a week.

Q: What’s a brand you’re in love with? Why?

Donna: I love to hate Lego. I can’t remember exactly how the love-hate relationship began. It probably started blocking up my news feeds with smarmy stunts. But, my personal feelings (jealously mostly) aside, I have to salute its communications team. It’s developed a rhythm for reactive PR and is fab at seeking out opportunities. Why? It’s secure enough in its brand to have some fun with it. Yes, the Lego bricks will always have to have certain dimensions, colours and perceptions. But, the boss doesn’t have a cow when these things are ever-so-slightly manipulated It understands that UGC is a pleasure worth any pain.

For want of a cliché it operates firmly outside the Lego house.

How many brands are confident enough to turn a complaint from a seven-year old girl into a compliment – by releasing a range of inspirational female figures? It’s probably the same as the number of brands which can create a BAFTA-winning self-titled movie.

Q: What advice would you give to someone wanting to be a PR pro?

Donna: Don’t forget to PR yourself. Find your niche. and own it. Whether it’s social media tips, a great relationship with a national journalist or in-depth knowledge of a specialist sector, position yourself as the go-to person and share your accomplishments when it all falls into place – for the clients or your business.

Q: Do you have a few life lessons you learned from your work in PR?

Donna: Don’t be intimidated by your position:

Have an idea or want to critique your client’s strategy but you’re just a junior in the company? It doesn’t matter. Ok, don’t shout it out during a crucial pitch, but find someone in the agency who you trust and be open with them. It’ll not only show you’re engaged and invested in the project, but will boost your profile. Even if nothing comes of it, I believe a CEO and a junior should be able to have a productive conversation. After all, we’re just PRs.

There’s been times when I’ve had that gut feeling to speak up and either missed the opportunity to speak up or didn’t communicate my point clearly. I remember in the first few weeks of my first PR job, I was involved in a government health campaign pitch prep workshop and the idea the seniors were leaning towards didn’t feel right. I broke up the conversation which took place around a large conference table, commented and it was dismissed because ‘what did I know?’ We lost the pitch but it didn’t matter to me. I’d stayed true to myself.

I wished I’d remembered that money when – fast forward a few years at a new agency – I’d made a fool of myself selling in a non story (roast dinners rarely make the news) at the request of my boss who hadn’t completed a sale in years. I knew it wasn’t a productive use of my time and the angle wasn’t working but didn’t speak up. So I not only damaged some journalist relationships by sounds like a plonker on the phone but also found it hard to justify my results.

Invited to a meeting but not sure why? 

Talk to your boss and ask them what you can present, share or ask in the meeting. If you can’t do things, explain you’ll be taking notes. You want people to know you’re not just there for the tea and biscuits.

It’s PR, not ER:

As far as I know, no one’s ever died from an incorrect press release or missed coverage opportunity. Take your job seriously, of course, but don’t take it home with you.

Q: What are some habits you have that keep you ahead of the marketing game? 

Donna: I follow the trail to see the bigger picture. If I spot a unique campaign on one of the 20 national, industry or blog sites that I read most days, I’ll research what people are saying about it and do some digging as to whether the agency has simply recycled an idea or has pushed the boundaries. It takes time but it makes my blog arguments stronger.

Q: Would you tell us a story of when a risk you took ended up becoming a success of yours?

Donna: Last year I left a permanent agency role for an in-house temporary contract at a national charity. It meant stepping down from a management role but I believed in the charity’s vision.

I went in there with nothing to lose but one goal: do the job (slightly) better than my predecessor.

I used my agency experience to create strategy documents and PR plans they’d not seen in a while and, when the chance came up to squeeze a digital internship into my day job I took it. It showed I was passionate and helpful, at the cost of a few early mornings and late nights.

But, that was my stepping stone to make it into digital. Now, I have two core skills under my belt. No looking back.

Q: If you had unlimited resources and time what would you do?

Donna: I’d work for myself and start my own consultancy: Prime Time.

It would (no, it will) offer clients an integrated service – PR, marketing, digital etc. But, to add jam to our bread and butter, we’ll have freelance PRs and copywriters to hire out and a recruitment division to ensure we’re introducing an outstanding range of diverse individuals to the fold.

Being a mixed race woman in any sector isn’t easy. I always want to champion diversity, equality and rising stars.

Q: Where can people find you and your passion, your work, your art?

Donna: You can catch up on the latest Prime Time (PR In My Eyes) news and views on www.primetimepr.co.uk.

Alternatively, follow my industry, soap opera and fitness ramblings on Twitter (@dmhwhite), Pinterest (@dmhwhite) and Instagram (@dmh_white).

 

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Unlocking Potential #9: Q&A With Matt Haze

Unlocking Potential #9: Q&A With Matt Haze

Matt HazeThis particular Q&A is with non-other than Matt Haze, the man behind the @30RockTree Twitter account. He’s an entertainer and excessively active on Twitter and Facebook.

Matt has lived on both coasts while working on his career in entertainment and currently resides in NYC.

He’s a radio geek and late night show fanatic, but also a go-getter, mover, and shaker, which makes him perfect for a segment on my Unlocking Potential series.

Welcome the one-and-only, Matt Haze.

Q: Read your Twitter bio. Check. Looked around on your website. Check. Tell us about your real, authentic self in a few sentences, something the Internet hasn’t told us. Who is Matt Haze, really?

I’m just a guy observing things in the world and hoping to share what I see through comedy.  There’s so many thoughts that run through my head that if they don’t get out, I really think I will explode!

Q: What does a day in the life of Matt Haze look like?

There is never one exact day, really.  Which in a way is bad because real creativity comes from habits.  I’m a loyal Seth Godin fan and I know that persistent shipping of content every day is what gets you out there.  For years I’ve wanted to build a daily routine, but it’s tough.  Some days, I start really early to do a radio or TV thing.  Some days, I sleep in because I was hosting an event until the wee hours of the morning the night before.  Some days, I’m on the road to get to another gig.  But I honestly love it that way.

Q: What’s your muse, you art, your purpose? (Was it hard to discover this?)

To make people laugh like they’ve never seen or heard something before. I’ve always had an idea what it is I do, but it’s always been tough to put into words.  A few weeks ago, my buddy Sammy Simpson and I had a catch up coffee.  This is the exact topic we talked about.  He’s a really smart guy and he helped me to formulate that into words.

Q: What has been the toughest decision you had to make? How did you decide what to do?

There’s two that come to mind.  First, when I left my full time radio gig in Akron, Ohio in 2005.  Part of me knew I wasn’t going to stay there and it was time to do something different.  My last day was a mess because part of me was really thinking that this was a mistake.  Looking back, it was a good thing I left for many reasons.  It was the start of a crazy new journey and chapter.  Secondly, when I decided to go back east and leave Los Angeles.  Part of me felt like I failed at LA.  When, in reality, it wasn’t for me.  It was a good learning experience and I’m glad I did it.

Q: What is success to you?

This has been something I’ve been struggling with the last year.  For many, they look at what I’ve done and think “oh he’s successful!  He’s done stuff!”  But I grew up in the old school media world.  There’s still part of me that feels I need to be validated by some higher being (boss or company) to feel “successful.”  But as the landscape has changed in the last 10 years, I also know that’s total bullshit.  Success is doing projects that are meaningful for me.  If I’ve made someone happy or succeeded a client’s expectations, I’d call that a success.

Q: What are three essential habits for success?

Oh I am HORRIBLE for habits.  But here’s three things I do every day that I know help me grow.

  1. I consume content. I’m always looking at links, stories, videos, whatever people are talking about.  I may not watch the big TV shows people are talking about, but I know what they are.  You have to have an idea what is going on out there to be able to create content that relates.
  2. I interact on social.  If I didn’t interact with people, they wouldn’t share my content or help me get a gig.  Social is a two way street.  You have to treat it that way for it to fully work.
  3. I network.  It goes with number two, but I make an effort to reach out 2-3 times a year with my top influencers to remind them I’m out there and see how I can help them.  When I sold real estate for two minutes, I was taught that most people only have space in their brain for 1-2 names of agents.  You want to be one or two of those.  No matter what you do, I feel this is true.  Being top of mind is KEY.  And that takes effort, communication and talking to people to make happen.

Q: What was holding you back from being a remarkable entertainer?

MYSELF.  I am my own worst enemy.  My closest friends hear my private thoughts about how I feel about my work.  I’ll get a call about an amazing opportunity and I’ll instantly start to doubt myself.  “Oh someone must have made a mistake.”  I think we all suffer from this.

Q: If you got to go back ten years, but could only take with you one piece of knowledge that you know now, what would it be?

Trust your gut.  Just do it.

Q: What are a few life lessons you want readers to take away from this?

The biggest one is to not be afraid to take a chance.  There are people who will come out of the woodwork to help you achieve whatever it is you want if you’re authentic.  If what you’re doing is true to your purpose and soul, people will help you.  Keep going.

Q: Where can people find your art?

Shameless plug: matthaze.com

 

Stay Positive & Seriously, Trust Your Gut

 

The Desire For Too Much Change

The Desire For Too Much Change

Too Much Change

I remained immobile the other day after realizing how much I want to change in my life.

While I’m not one that sees the new year as a time to start something new (because now is the best time to start anything), I can’t help thinking about all the changes I want to make and in such short time I want to make them.

It’s a problem I see with a lot of entrepreneurs, go-getters and people who just want to turn their life around.

By “turnaround,” I mean a quick turnaround. We want our new habits to form from the start. We want to be on all the healthy tracks of eating, exercising, meditating, working, creating, connecting, and so on, all at once, and in a short period of time.

Quite frankly, just thinking about it, trying to plan big change to happen fast… it’s paralyzing.

We have to remember the new year isn’t a 1-day event, it’s a 365-day event, some may even consider it a marathon of sorts.

Small consistent changes are fine as long as they lead you to the place you want to be. We don’t need to have everything happen at once.

 

Stay Positive & Don’t People Who Are In It For The Long Haul Just Make You Happy?

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Why Good Habits Don’t Last

Why Good Habits Don’t Last

Daily Grind Habit

Max Ogles wrote on Medium that it’s because the habits are generally not enjoyable. The thing is, most people set out to master good habits, not to maintain them. Simply stating it, maintaining good habits is the unenjoyable part, not necessarily the habit itself.

We go into goal-setting with a subconscious acknowledgment that there are a million good habits that we should have, but don’t. Once we’ve developed one good habit, we begin to see all the other good habits we’re missing.

Moreover, and quite plainly, we gain more pleasure out of turning something into a habit, of moving forward than of maintaining the habit. The reason that good habits don’t last is we’re no longer moving toward something. We’ve stagnated. We’ve began standing still. People die standing still.

When you’ve developed your good habit, you’re left with two options.

1) You can choose to start practicing a new good habit. (This will happen regardless, unless you choose the next option.)

2) You can slightly shift your good habit.

It’s one thing to exercise each day, but once it becomes mechanic, repetitive, unenjoyable, you can switch up the type of exercise. Strive to build a habit of boxing daily instead of running. This way you maintain the benefits exercising and retain the pleasure of striving to acquire a new habit.

By all means, follow Ogles advice to learn how to enjoy any habit, but know that stopping a good habit isn’t a bad thing so long as you’re on track to starting a new good habit.

 

Stay Positive & Keep Trying Different Good Habits Until You Find The Ones That Work For You

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The Swap

For some, finding/making time to work on their art is impractical. The hassle of time management, task management, and people management is too complicated and, in itself, time-consuming. Nearly counterintuitive.

That is why I often suggest that they swap something they do regularly to work on their muse. The reading sessions at night can be put on a halt for a week. Karaoke night, family scrabble, lunch dates; they can all be post-pined for a week or two.

Finding time to work on your art is difficult. Swapping it with one of your weekly (or, hopefully, daily) habits is much easier to do.

Before you know it, you’ll be able to do both.

 

Stay Positive & Time Will Find You

Garth E. Beyer

A List Of 30 Lists

Lists

A list of…

  1. What you are thankful for
  2. The moments in life you felt most alive
  3. This week’s goals
  4. Goals to be met within five years
  5. 99 ridiculous things you want to do before you die (no limit on possibility)
  6. What is stopping you from doing what you need to do
  7. What is stopping you from doing what you want to do (yes, they’re different)
  8. Every book you have read (not a list of every book you want to read!)
  9. Sources of inspiration
  10. Places you want to visit (test: can’t be on the first page of a Google search)
  11. Websites/podcasts that you must visit weekly, if not daily
  12. Your top 10 bad habits to break
  13. All the contacts you have made and something special about them
  14. Songs that get you moving
  15. Every source you have been quoted or mentioned
  16. What you want in a significant other
  17. Ideas that have been rejected, laughed at, or you didn’t deem as “good enough”
  18. Things to feel okay about (here is a start)
  19. What you don’t need to make a list for (things you do naturally, habitually)
  20. What you want your kids to know that you didn’t know growing up
  21. Mistakes you have made
  22. What you learned from those mistakes
  23. Things to admit now that you will later, anyway (here’s some ideas)
  24. Hurdles that have stopped you in the past
  25. What you love
  26. How you are different from other people, what makes you a niche
  27. What is happening right now without your effort that is building your brand
  28. People you want to meet in the next 10 years
  29. Your personal bests (running, blogging, audience count, viewers, subscribers)
  30. What is stopping you from making these lists when you know it will only help you

Stay Positive & Get Going

Garth E. Beyer

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