Acting On A New Narrative

Changing Your Narrative

If you’re painting, act as if you’ll be submitting it to the Louvre.

If you’re pitching to a prospect, act as if you’re pitching to the late Steve Jobs.

If you’re writing a novel, act as if Tom Robbins will be the first one to read and edit it.

When you change the narrative (which, by the way, takes little effort), you change the result. The outcome becomes stronger. The product has in it: more care, more passion, more will than if you were just creating for the sake of creating or because your boss told you to do it.

For some they imagine that everything is a competition, others imagine the largest reward for a job magnificently done, others find an influencer and judge their work by them, “If Edward Bernays were seeing this PR proposal, would he be proud?”

All it takes is a little imagination to do better work; just a tweak of your narrative.

 

Stay Positive & You’ll Be Impressed At What Follows After Your New Narrative

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Six Degrees No More

Six Degrees of Seperation

The infamous expression of six degrees of separation means that to get to who you want, you’re six or less steps/meetups/emails away from making the connection.

That was the case in 1929 when the theory was announced…

That’s simply not the case anymore.

 

Stay Positive & Ask, And You Shall Receive

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Every Time You Do A Project

Always Learning

By default, when you do something for the first time, you’re mentally prepared for trial and error, you’re focused on learning, you already know there must be a second time and that the second time will be better than the first because you paid attention to what you could learn.

But, as your second, twentieth or hundredth time doing it comes around, are you still open?

Are you seeking out the lesson?

Are you maintaining the attitude that there is always something to learn every time you do a project?

 

Stay Positive & The Successful Still Do

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Customer Accountability

Customer Accountability

One of the largest mistakes a business (especially a service-business) can make is to not hold their customers or clients accountable.

There’s nothing worse than clinging yourself to a sinking ship or one that is permanently moored in its ways.

When my mom was a personal trainer, the complaint I heard most often was that clients would cancel their training sessions. My mom, always wanting to give the benefit of the doubt, wouldn’t charge them.

The constant cancellations (having put so much preparation into a session!) finally got to her.

There are two ways to look at this. The first being selfishly. She could have made more money, got compensated for her time and got an hour back of her day to invest in someone else.

The second way is that, had she established a cancellation fee, she would have held her clients accountable. She would have been what they were actually paying her to be. (Anyone can do some workouts, but most need the right kind of accountability to do them.)

The same goes if you’re a marketer. Do you have a penalty for clients who don’t let you meet the bottom line you’ve promised? Perhaps you agree to 100 pitches this year, but the client rejects 40 of the 110 you suggest. Do you let it be or do you kick them in the butt?

Holding customers accountable is a move not many make and not many blame their failure on for reasons of selflessness and guilt, but it’s the one marketing tactic that ensures a baseline of success.

 

Stay Positive & Accountability Is Everything

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More Approachable

Becoming Approachable

The gateway to getting what you want is to leave the gate open.

The way you face at work.

The time you spend with headphones in.

Where you position yourself through the majority of the day.

It all makes you more (or less!) approachable.

When you make yourself approachable, more opportunities land on your pile, more connections are made, more rewards are shared.

 

Stay Positive & Is Your Gate Open?

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Most Valuable Skill Of The Successful

Personality Skills

If you’re going to invest the time and effort to become a pro at something, by default there’s another self-taught talent it would be in your best interest to consider.

No matter the industry, once you become one of the greatest, people will want to talk to you and about you. (Oh, and they’ll carry on producing their work about you whether you chat with them or not.) Best, then, to accommodate them.

While it can be complicated to be an extrovert, that’s not exactly what’s needed.

Three required attributes:

  • The ability to speak ad hoc about your passion and your story.
  • To ability to read the room.
  • Belief in yourself that you deserve the recognition.

You can do this while remaining humble, certainly. If you need to, remind yourself that you’re helping the person interviewing you by being a great interviewee.

All it takes is the commitment to perform.

 

Stay Positive & Fake It Until You Make It

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They Make It Look Easy

Making It Look Easy

Of course, it never is.

Making it look easy is a privilege and a bonus to doing all that looks hard.

It’s also the greatest compliment one can hear.

It pays to ask yourself if you were your audience, would you be saying it?

 

Stay Positive & Easy Peasy, Right?

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