Solving The Problem Behind Freedom In Lead Writing

Freedom gives us too many possibilities. We seize up when confronted with what feels like infinite possibility, and fear comes after you as soon as you manage to write your first lead.

What to do

1. You have to be you. Neil Gaiman has said,

“Tell your story. Don’t try and tell the stories that other people can tell. Because [as a] starting writer, you always start out with other people’s voices — you’ve been reading other people for years… But, as quickly as you can, start telling the stories that only you can tell — because there will always be better writers than you, there will always be smarter writers than you … but you are the only you.”

2. Don’t go back to figure out what is most important in the story, so you can use it with your lead. If you don’t remember the most interesting parts of the story after reading all of your notes once, then it’s not that important.

As long as you are considering the audience when writing your lead, what you thought was important is what is important. You didn’t miss anything.

3. Freak out and critique your lead into oblivion. Because that always helps.

Yea, that last one was a joke. The point of one and two is not to do three.

 

Stay Positive & Joking Is Fun In Leads Too

Making Good Things Better

I’m stressed right now and I wish I had a stressball to squeeze.

Of course, just thinking about a stressball makes me laugh because all I really think about is a poem I wrote four years ago about a stressball.

The stressball helps. It is good. The poem, though, makes it even better.

The simple fact is that stories make good things better.

As for my poem, maybe I’ll share it another time…

 

Stay Positive & Go Wave Your Story-Making Wand Around

Garth E. Beyer

Neil Gaiman Has It Right

When it comes to my writing, I write when I don’t want to. I do so not with hopes that I will work toward inspiration, but with acknowledgement that in the end, words on paper are only words on paper.

Neil Gaiman backs me up,

“And the weird thing is that six months later, or a year later, you’re going to look back and you’re not going to remember which scenes you wrote when you were inspired and which scenes you wrote because they had to be written.”

After writing, though, what you do with those words is an entirely different situation.

 

Stay Positive & There’s No Bad Time To Write

The Tragedy Of Positivity

I’m all for staying positive (duh!), but you need to recognize that there are times that being positive blinds you. No, this isn’t about being a positive realist. It’s more about being an active idealist.

I recently sat in on a class filled with first year students. During class, each student expressed how great it was that the teacher’s lecture mimicked exactly what is in the book they had to read. Being positivists, they noted how it really sets the information in their memory. I laughed.

I’ve been in the lecture and I’ve read the book. Not only is the lecture a copy of the book, but the professor goes through the slides so quickly that it’s hard to keep up anyway. Oh, I also need to mention the slides are posted online for the students to view at their leisure.

Bravo to the students for turning a negative into a positive by saying that the repetition of material is beneficial. But shame on them for not changing the professors ideals, not challenging the method of teaching, not suggesting improvements.

Repetition is valuable, but the students can repeat all the information by looking at the slides or rereading the book. When it comes to the lecture, that’s two and a half hours of wasted time.

By all means, stay positive, but be skeptical.

Not all things that are positive should go unchallenged.

 

Stay Positive & Make Things Right, To Your Heart, Not Your Mind

Garth E. Beyer

This One Is On Me (what do you suggest?)

I’m currently coughing up a storm scarier than a real life sharknado. And I need your help.

This post is about me being human. I don’t always follow my own advice. I make mistakes, sometimes the same one multiple times (more on that in a moment). If I did do everything I preached, well, I wouldn’t be writing, I would be too busy doing it all. Actually, there’s not even enough time to do everything that I preach. That’s my problem. That’s why I have run myself down sick. I think there is.

I am calling on you to make this post into something remarkable. You’re going to become the leader, the sharer, the writer; not me. I will even set you up with the context and offer a few questions to get your mind working. Note: I don’t care about how well you write. If you have an idea, share it. Remember, the point here is that we are all only human.

Seven months ago I wrote a post about Biting Off More Than You Can Chew.

Now, this post that you’re reading, I have to say that I’ve crashed and need your input. Am I wrong for biting off more than I can chew? Is it okay to feel insignificant when taking on a lighter load? Will biting off more than I can chew get me to my goals any quicker than pacing myself at the dinner table so-to-speak?

I’ve battled this for some time. In the past, I have believed that by biting off more than I can chew, then crashing, then repeating those that again, that I build up my endurance. I’m not so sure anymore.

So, yes, this might not work, but I am asking for your help? What do you think?

 

Stay Positive & Comment Below or email thegarthbox@gmail.com

Garth E. Beyer –if you don’t see the comment box. You need to open the actual story page by clicking the title of this post. Then you can scroll down and comment.

Let It Bend

How lenient are you when it comes to customer service? How much leeway do you give the person on the other side of the line? (Customer, family member, friend, anyone.) What guidelines do you have set? How much do you bend?

The reason I ask these questions is to add emphasis to my following statement.

If it bends then it can break.

I don’t necessarily make this statement to express the need for solid structure and tight rules. The opposite is actually true.

When you allow flexibility, yes, it can break, but my mom has always said, “some rules were meant to be broken.”

And damn do I see some amazing things when some rules are broken.

Simple. Straightforward. That’s why I always let things bend.

 

Stay Positive & Share Some Thoughts?

Garth E. Beyer