There’s something special to the people with “will do!” attitudes. They’re often the ones to lead, to take on more than they can handle, and the ones to have long “to-do” lists (and an equally long “done” list). These narcissists state they will do something: they will fix it, they will improve it, they will increase sales, profits, referrals.
Yes, these types of people have a stigma, many being given the title of Millennial.
I care to dissipate the stigma. There is one short way to removing this societal blemish, and it’s to change the way you think.
Instead of “will do!” attitudes, revert back to the “can I do?” attitudes.
To ask is to observe, to analysis, and to consider all possibilities. “Can I do?” attitudes are open-minded. Asking if you can accomplish something allows you to explore, whereas stating that you will do something and then just doing it prevents experimentation and above all, feedback.
Once it is done, you can check it off. But those who have “can I do?” attitudes ask themselves if they can do better once they accomplish what they set off to do.
The beauty of it all is that you can carry over the motivation, the determination, and the tenacity that “will do!” attitudes have into the “can I do?” attitude.
Just start asking yourself if you can complete something instead of stating you will.
Stay Positive & A Little Self Actually Helps
Garth E. Beyer
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