You Really Don’t Want To Do What You Love

Garth Beyer

I’m getting a couple of articles published on Under30CEO. Meanwhile I am beginning to write for the Clarion (school newspaper). Also, I attended the PRSSA kick off event tonight and will be going to the Madison chapter of Society of Professional Journalists next week. This is the life of a person going into PR. I want to schedule the meetings with those who lead these organizations and others, I want to be a critical part to the clubs and organizations progress, and I want to connect with everyone I can so that I can learn everything they know.

Secretly though, I don’t want to. I was nervous about submitting the articles to Under30CEO, it took me over a week to convince myself to email the chief-in-editor for the Clarion about a position, I thought I missed the PRSSA event and simply shrugged with a tad of self-dissapointment, and I’m still telling myself that I’m going to the SPJ meeting to connect with people; I don’t need to be connected with someone before I go. To be straightforward, part of me didn’t want to do any of the things that I love doing!

We all want to do what we love, our passion, what makes us most happy to be doing. Yet, even those things make us put on our brakes, question our reasoning, evaluate the risk, let nervousness prevent us from action, and remain passive while the lizard brain takes control. Doing what you love is hard work and though you may want to do it, you will always also not want to do it.

My motto is that you’ll never get anywhere if you don’t do at least one thing a day that you don’t want to do.

Remember, you may not love what you do – and that’s okay, it’s not the point – the point is to love having done what you did more than anything in the world. Eventually, you’ll grow to love doing the things you both do and don’t want to do. It’s about creating habit. Keep doing what you don’t want to do and you’ll end up loving every minute of it.

 

Stay Positive & Commit To Never Skip A Day

Garth E. Beyer

Personally, at the end of the day I will be happy no matter what as long as I did something I didn’t want to do because I know I’ll have made progress whether it appears right away or not.

Plugging Into Your Audience

Garth Beyer

One of the quickest ways to reach your audience is through social media. (Duh!)

But while social media may consist of a hundred sub-categories, that does not mean that you need to invest into each one to reach your audience. A quick assessment of yourself/your business and your audience will make you aware of what social media tools you can leverage and which tools you will need to learn.

This can be done by drawing a mind map of Media and You, as well as one for your audience (Media and Them). I have drawn a simple version of mine. Unlike mine, you would want to be more elaborate and branch off further with each group until you have a full map.

After drawing your own media mind map, then draw one for your audience; what media do they use? what parts of that media do they use most? If you’re really in to it – which you better be – you can create a sidebar of all the parts of media that your audience avoids or rarely uses.

When comparing your map with your audience’s, the areas you share something in common are the areas where you can begin to leverage and those which you do not have in common with your audience are the areas you must create, build, and continuously work on until they become part of your own map.

@Businesses, when you go to hire a Social Media Professional or a Public Relations Specialist, don’t hire the one that has toyed with every single part of social media. Hire the one that relates best to the media mind map of your audience.

After all, it doesn’t take an expert to figure out what social media your audience uses. A phone call or email will do.

Women Writers

Garth Beyer

truly know what they are doing. In light of my Women in Literature class I am taking and my rediscovery of a particular page in Keri Smith’s Living Out Loud, I’d like to share Keri’s 10 characteristics of women writers.

Oh yea, and don’t make fun of me for having the book. I had no clue it was created primarily for women when I got it!

 

1. A passion for nature.

2. A connection with something greater than themselves.

3. A connection with childhood memories.

4. A connection to other artists, writers, and creators,

5. A sharing of ideas and inspiration: creative gatherings, dinners, support groups, café meetings, letter writing, afternoon teas.

6. A need for, and confidence in, solitude.

7. A capacity for self-motivation: inspiring walks, travel, learning new skills, reading, cooking, exploring.

8. An experience of pain, and the triumph of moving beyond it to create a well of strength.

9. A gift of mindfulness and an ability to see magic in the ordinary.

10. An experience of gratefulness and compassion for all the good things and people in their lives.

 

But then again, I wouldn’t have been able to share this with you if I hadn’t.

 

Stay Positive & Having Passion Is Always More Beautiful Than Makeup

Garth E. Beyer

A Remarkable Video To Watch

Garth Beyer

I was fortunate enough to find this clip in my schools digital library. I suggest checking yours or seeing if you can find a free version.

But if not, it’s worth paying for. Truly is.

Heck, it’s so important that you watch it, I just found a free version for you!

I never thought I’d say that I would watch a documentary twice, but I would with this one. Let me know your thoughts and let’s chat about it ( thegarthbox@gmail.com )

And come on … it has Seth Godin in it!

Stay Positive & Watch And Learn

Garth E. Beyer

My Antonia

Garth Beyer

Unlike my typical book regurgitations, and because I would think there is only a 50% chance that you are an avid reader of literature, I will summarize My Antonia with only six lines from the entire book.

“At any rate, that is happiness; to be dissolved into something complete and great.” (21)

“Optima dies . . . prima fugit.” (208) – The best days are the first to flee.

“Primus ego in patriam mecum . . . deducam Musas” (208) – For I shall be the first, if I live, to bring the Muse into my country.

“It makes them feel important to think they’re in love with somebody.” (228)

“Lena gave her heart away when she felt like it, but she kept her head for her business and had got on in the world.” (234)

“And I don’t mind work a bit, if I don’t have to put up with sadness.” (267)

I also think it’s worth to credit Willa Cather with a quote from her other book O’ Pioneers!  “I have a feeling that if you go away, you will not come back. Something will happen to one of us, or to both. People have to snatch at happiness when they can, in this world. It is always easier to lose than to find. What I have is yours, if you care enough about me to take it” (Part II: XII)

 

Stay Positive & Finding These Quotes Is Why I Read (well … one reason at least)

Garth E. Beyer

Here is the essay I wrote to go with this book. MyAntoniaproject

PR Botique And Originality

Garth Beyer

Here’s an oxymoron: everyone is unique.

If every PR agency continues to say they are a boutique public relations firm, the term boutique will lose all it’s meaning, all of its power.

Here are four out of a thousands of sites that consider themselves Boutique firms or agencies:

Heck, this one has Boutique in its name.

Now here is where I show that I don’t know everything. Before researching this concept, I thought I was on to something big. I wanted to show that PR firms and agencies need to quit saying they are all unique, they are all boutiques, they are all different niches of PR and to come up with something more meaningful. PR Outhouse, Exclusive PR, PR Booth, or something like PR Superette are all better variations than the traditional and overused Boutique.

All cool ideas, I feel, but then I read this.

So maybe these PR firms and agencies are not doing any wrong when calling themselves a Boutique, but don’t you agree they can be more original?

Ignore and Notice

Garth Beyer

Ignore… those who tell you it can’t be done

Ignore… those who only tried once

Ignore… those who beat around the bush

Ignore… those who prevent you from finishing

Ignore… those who complain about how long it will take

Ignore… those who give up before they try

Ignore… those who are miserable

Notice… those who inspire you

Notice… those who admire the small accomplishments you make

Notice… those who go after it relentlessly

Notice… those who have been rejected 50 times because they kept trying

Notice… those who watch your progress

Notice… those who are forward

Notice… those  who do what they say they will

 

Stay Positive & What Ones Did I Miss?

Garth E. Beyer