Attention

Three Things You Can Always Give

Garth Beyer

I’m currently working on my Kickstarter project, but more on the specific project later. What I want to point out is that I don’t have many “material” things to give. Most people often don’t. So I am discovering that there are three ways that you can always give.

The first is time. It matters not that if it’s a little or a lot. What matters is that time is always there, and it’s extremely dynamic. You can play with time in a little way by waiting an extra five minutes before you leave or as complicated as working your entire schedule around to fit in some 1 on 1 time with your spouse. No matter what you need time for, you can work it out.

The second is attention and I mean this in the most general form. You can give your own attention to a matter, you can bring something to their attention or you can help someone create something that draws attention. It may feel that it costs money to get attention, but it is always free to give it.

The third is passion. It requires such little effort because your passion is your effort. Your passion is the most powerful thing you can give and transmit through another person and it is the total game changer in any relationship.

All three of which you can look forward to getting your hands on when my Kickstarter is released because you deserve the best, most value and something that I can always give.

 

Stay Positive & Boycott White Elephant (Try And Give These Things Away!)

Garth E. Beyer

Your Loved One Has Other Options

Garth Beyer

An average man spends 43 minutes a day checking out at least 10 women according to a survey .One of those women is your interest, your girlfriend, your fiance’, your wife.

This will not be a list of special things to do for the one you love, this is a reminder to you to DO special things for her.

In a year, the woman of your interest will have at least 200,000 guys look at her and create fantasies of getter her interest. You can bet that at least a quarter of them will take a shot at  her. Despite your large ego, your girl has plenty of other choices and she knows that. It’s your responsibility to show her that you are the best of the choice. Sorry guys, it even frustrates me sometimes that loving someone is a life-long effort.

Ladies, do not think this doesn’t put you in account either. This is a reminder to give your partner a reason to not look at 10 other women. Love is a two-way street.

What are you doing for your loved one to keep their eyes on you?

Stay Positive and Go The Distance

Garth E. Beyer

I thought I would toss an idea that I had for you new love-birds. Keep record of every movie you see together so that in a year, five years, or twenty years you can go back and relive your relationships situation at the time: Your first movie, Your first movie with their family, Your first movie that you spent making out instead of watching it, etc.